Pier Giorgio was born into  a fairly privileged family  in Turin, Italy. His father was an influential politician and businessman, and his social environment included comforts and opportunities most young people could only imagine. But what truly defined him wasn’t his life of luxury; it was his deep sensitivity to those in need.

Pier was genuinely committed, and he didn't settle for giving what was left over. He made real sacrifices and, on top of money and material gifts, he gave his time, friendship, and sincere presence. He could be found participating in charitable works, visiting hospitals, helping the sick, and working for organizations that supported the poor and marginalized.  Many people might wonder how someone from his social class could care so deeply for those living in poverty.

Well, for him, charity was a way of life and a reflection of his living faith. Christian love demands real commitment, beyond what's comfortable or convenient. When he died,  hundreds of poor people  filled the streets to pay their respects. He formed deep bonds, not only with his  family and friends, but with the poor and vulnerable people he met and helped.  He left a profound mark on the people who needed him.

It’s easy to fall into the trap  of giving only what’s left over: a few coins, a little time  (when we really don't have anything pressing to get to),  or helping in ways that  don’t disrupt our routine.  Often we stay comfortable,  prioritizing studying, socializing, or just resting.  But Pier Giorgio invites us  to go further and see charity from another perspective.

Real transformation  happens when we choose to engage fully, opening our hearts and letting the reality of those around us touch us, even if it involves some sacrifice or inconvenience.

When people asked how  much to give the poor, Mother  Teresa of Calcutta would say,

"Give until it hurts."

Many of us want to do good, are moved by the needs of others, and admire those who give generously... but when the moment of truth comes, we hesitate. We want to help without it hurting, without it changing our lives too much. Pier Giorgio, in contrast, was radically generous because he knew that authentic love asks us to go beyond what's easy and  give not just things,  but our very selves.

Paradoxically, when we  give wholeheartedly,  even when it's difficult,  we experience a deeper joy,  a peace unlike any other.  God doesn’t let Himself  be outdone in generosity:  He fills the "emptiness" we  feel from what we gave with  a joy far greater than  what we gave up.  What seemed like a loss becomes an even greater gift.

Food for thought:

When do you notice yourself prioritizing comfort over helping others? What small things could you do to help someone? Do you use your talents and abilities for the good of others, or do you often keep them for yourself? How does it feel when you give time or attention to someone in need?  What keeps you from stepping out of your comfort zone to care for others?

Before sitting down to rest, see if you can do something for someone else.  One small thing could  change someone’s day. Sometimes, all it takes is paying attention.

PRACTICAL TIPS to learn to give like Pier Giorgio Frassati

Ask the Lord what talents  He has given you and  how you can put them  at the service of others.

PRACTICAL TIPS to learn to give like Pier Giorgio Frassati

Identify your comfort zones or habits. Recognizing routines or places (the couch, TikTok, etc.) that make you overly self-focused is the first step. You don’t need to eliminate them, just not prioritize them. For example, when opening TikTok, say: “Lord, if while I’m here someone needs me, show me and help me help them.”

PRACTICAL TIPS to learn to give like Pier Giorgio Frassati