"Friendship multiplies joys and offers comfort in sorrows; the friendship of a Christian desires the greatest happiness—the relationship with Jesus Christ—for those close to them"
Msgr. Fernando Ocáriz
(Keep track of the number of answers you have for each letter as you go... And don't t overthink it! There areas many kinds of friendships as there are friends, and these saints give us a handful of examples with their trust and mutual care.)
What activities do you prefer to do when you're together?
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Shopping
Hiking
Watching a movie
Visiting an art exhibition
Going to a café
You're going out to eat with your friends. What do you order?
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Hamburger & fries
Pizza
Sushi
Pasta
Crepes (dessert first!)
What colour best characterizes your friendship?
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Warm brown
Calming blue
Earthy green
Brilliant yellow
Passionate orange
When you disagree...
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We never disagree!
We get over it quickly.
It's not easy for us to apologize, but we do it.
One of us asks for forgiveness eventually.
We resolve it right away.
Which country would you visit with your friends?
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India
Italy
Peru
Spain
France
What sport do you play together?
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Basketball
Football
Golf
Tennis
Ping pong
What type of movies do you watch together?
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Comedy
Action
Suspense / Terror
Fantasy / Science Fiction
Drama / Romance
Choose an image that represents you with your friends.
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Tally up your results and tap through to the letter you chose most often...
If you chose the most "A" responses
The friendship between Saint John Paul II and Saint Teresa of Calcutta has attracted significant media attention around the world. Their closeness and affection were so profound that Saint John Paul II often referred to her as 'my mother.' Both, from their different circumstances, drove significant changes in the world. Saint John Paul II was a great advocate for peace, and the St. Teresa consistently urged us to live out charity with those in greatest need.
Saint John Paul II and Saint Teresa of Calcutta
If you chose the most "A" responses
Like them, your friendship is focused on achieving something together. Keep going, because together, you can accomplish great things.
Saint Teresa of Calcutta visited her friend several times in the Vatican, and Saint John Paul II visited India in 1986, where he saw 'Nirmal Hriday' (Sacred Heart), a hospice founded by Mother Teresa. She described that day as 'the happiest of her life.
Saint John Paul II and Saint Teresa of Calcutta
If you chose the most "B" responses
Bartholomew—also known as Nathanael—was one of Jesus' twelve apostles. His name means 'God has given.' The Gospel of Saint John describes how Philip, a good friend of Bartholomew, told him that he had met the Messiah. Bartholomew was initially somewhat skeptical: 'Can anything good come from Nazareth?' To which Philip replied, 'Come and see.
Philip and Bartholomew
If you chose the most "B" responses
Philip is a loyal, sincere friend who doesn’t hesitate to share with his friend what has made him happy. And because there is a genuine friendship, Bartholomew expresses his doubts openly.
Philip and Bartholomew
Like these apostles; you’re not afraid to speak your minds, and you always prefer to communicate naturally and simply. Maybe Jesus would describe your friendship the same way He described Bartholomew: "Here is a true Israelite in whom there is no guile!"
If you chose the most "C" responses
Mary and Martha are sisters and, along with their brother Lazarus, receive Jesus at their home on several occasions. They could not be more different from each other. Although we don't have many details, from their reactions we can see that Mary is a serene, deep, and emotional woman, while Martha is more practical, decisive, and service-oriented. The story is well-known when, during one of Jesus' visits, Martha gets upset upon seeing that her sister does not help her.
Martha & Mary
If you chose the most "C" responses
Jesus responds with the simplicity of a good friend: 'Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed, or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her
Martha & Mary
These two sisters are very different from each other, but those differences enrich their daily interactions. Like Martha and Mary, you and your friend value one another and are constantly learning from each other.
If you chose the most "D" responses
Saint Josemaría, founder of Opus Dei, chose Blessed Álvaro del Portillo as his closest collaborator from a very young age, and they worked together for almost 40 years. He was his confessor and became his successor as Prelate of Opus Dei from 1975 until his death. On one occasion when Blessed Álvaro was absent, Saint Josemaría said:
Saint Josemaría & Blessed Alvaro
If you chose the most "D" responses
"I would like you to imitate him in many things, but above all in loyalty. Throughout these many years of his vocation, he has faced numerous opportunities—humanly speaking—to become angry, to be upset, to be disloyal; yet he has always maintained an incomparable smile and faithfulness."
Saint Josemaría & Blessed Alvaro
Like them, your friendship is built to withstand the test of time. Mutual trust makes you value each other more each day.
If you chose the most "E" responses
Perpetua was 22 years old when she was arrested for being a Christian. Along with her, Felicity, who worked as a slave in her wealthy family's household, was also imprisoned. Despite their class differences, they became very good friends and bravely defended their faith during the toughest times. Both were able to receive Communion before being beheaded in the year 203.
Saint Felicity & Saint Perpetua
If you chose the most "E" responses
Saint Felicity & Saint Perpetua
Like them, in your friendship you have often found the strength to live out your faith with coherence. Sometimes it can be difficult to be authentic, but a true friend always encourages you to be courageous each day and live according to your beliefs. How fortunate you are to have a friendship like that!